Photo via D.C.’s Smuttiest Restaurant Bathrooms:
Plenty of other white-tablecloth joints are offering titillation and trash to D.C.’s well-heeled diners. But they’re doing it in the restroom.
I hardly ever post about stuff that goes on in my town that isn’t kink related, but this was just too random to pass up. Oh, DC. Never change.
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GAHH! I will have just left DC for the summer when this comes into town. I hate my life.
It’s not formalized yet, but I hear there are plans to broadcast the talk live/record it for posterity. You might be able to attend virtually!
Feederism Ethics Dinner in DC
So DC’s meatspace feederist/fat admiration group, Room for More, now has a website. (You might remember me writing about their first meeting.) On Saturday, May 28th they’re “doing something a little different“ than mingling with like-minded people in a restaurant:
We’re having MaryKay, a sex educator, and member of FF, come to lead a discussion on Feederism, Ethics, and Community.
Suggested Admissions: Premium members, $5. Basic members, $10. However, no one will be turned away due to lack of funds.
The topic is in part:
[I]s to get people involved in the Fat Admiration & Erotic Weight Gain communities to start talking about our future as a fetish community and establishing a set of ethics and rules towards person-affirming, non-objectifying (without consent), positive, consensual feederism & fat admiration… We’ll talk about why it’s important, what these ethics and rules may look like, how best to establish them as rules in the communities, how to promote them to be adopted by the communities at large…
The discussion is going to be in the Conference Room of The DC Center, (a non profit center for the DC LGBT community) at 2pm to 4pm (or whenever we finish).
At 4:30 (post discussion), we’re going to head up the street to Ben’s Next Door. It’s the new restaurant spin off of the DC Instituation Ben’s Chili Bowl, and they specialize in chili, half smokes, and southern cuisine. We have reservations for up to 6 people — PLEASE RSVP [feedeeblog (at) gmail (dot) com] so we have enough seats! Please note that dinner is not provided in the cost of the admission.
DC TNG review and how *do* Stormtroopers have sex in all that armor?
For those not familiar, a TNG (yes, it stands for The Next Generation) is a group for people 18-35 who are interested in BDSM. I haven’t had time to track down exactly who came up with the idea, but there seems to be TNG groups in many major cities. This is the one I went to.
The DC TNG was the first kink happy hour I went to in DC. It was also almost the last, one of the main reasons being that the majority of the people in the group were actually *over* 35. The false advertising gave the group a poor reputation, but a year after my first bad encounter the promise that they’d moved to a different bar and attracted a different group of people lured me out again. (I’d also been going stir-crazy after spending a lot of time studying Javascript.) I found the space and the age range represented much improved—but I also realized I knew all but three people from other DC groups or parties.
Overall rating: I had a great time, but I guess there’s still room for improvement.
Other stuff:
* While at TNG I met a Stormtrooper. I mean one of these guys. I finally know how they pee (which is the number one question he gets) and if you can have sex in the armor (which is the second most popular question). Anything more than a BJ is pretty much out, since a stiff plastic carapace is really uncomfortable to lie down in. You can either shift the bottom part of the armor around and get your dick out to pee that way, or have it made with a little hinged door for convenience.
Edit: I just realized this made it sound like there are no female Stormtroopers.
* He told me that some people also get together and wear Necromonger armor. Since Riddick is my favorite character of all time, this was one of my “I can now die happy” geek moments. (Haters, you cannot rob me of my squee.)
* I also met another sex writer—probably the first time that’s happened outside NYC. We talked about the Kindle and bitched about Steve Jobs.
* I got to hear what other people thought of DO Happy Hour—which is that we’re a clique and full of “old people”.
* We decided that the best pick-up line ever is “Do you like Huey Lewis and The News?” This may also be the worst pick-up line ever.
DC/Baltimore FF Meet Up! Or, The First DC/Baltimore Feederism Munch Ever!
When: October 2nd, 2010 (That’s *this Saturday*, people!)
Amanda of Feedee World writes, “the truly awesome Kaptn03 and me are co-organizing the 1st ever Washington, D.C. and Baltimore FantasyFeeder Meet Up, for the larger Northern Virginia, Maryland, and D.C. Area.” (For those that don’t know, Fantasy Feeder, or FF, is a feederism dating site.) “So far, we have about 10 definite attendees from all over the US and another 5 or so maybes, but there is always room for more.”
See the full time and place details here. Non-FF peeps are also welcome, just be sure to RSVP Amanda at FeedeeBlog@gmail.com.
For me, this is huge. If you’re not a feederist or into some other rare thing, you might not appreciate the simple fact of being able to meet with people who share your interests. In two years of online dating I’ve only been able to locate one or two feedees who were local. Even after attending almost a year’s worth of events where there have been representatives for everything from watersports to Furries, I’ve still always been the only feederist in the room. Often, I was the only person who’d ever heard of it.
I’m looking forward to meeting people in person I’ve only talked to online, asking them about their lives, how they date, what their fantasies are like. I’m also slightly terrified, as I always am when going to meet a new group of pervy people. If you go, look for the girl that looks like this: o.o. That’ll most likely be me. :p