(Figured it was time I finally made this shit rebloggable.)
This is a list of resources for people looking to learn more about feederism, fat admiration, or fetish. It is a work in progress.
Feederist and Fat Admiration Dating Sites
FF and Dimensions are mainly on here for completeness’ sake. They’ve both gotten a lot of criticism recently for bad moderation policies and general uselessness.
Virtual Feederism Groups
Reality Feeder hosts a Feederism Chat on days ending in Y; watch their Tumblr for when the chat is active.
Meatspace Feederism Groups
Real-Life Erotica (My most popular feederism stories.)
Fetish Politics (Things I’ve written about the uneasy relationship between fat admiration and fat acceptance)
Violet Blue’s book is, hands down, the best guide to navigating the feederism/fat admiration fetish I have ever seen. It has an entire section specifically dedicated to it, and covers everything from tips on how to explain your fetish to your partner to suggestions for hot scenes. If you can only afford to read one of my resources, get this one.
This book doesn’t have a section devoted specifically to feederism, but it does show the various ways people adjust to having “extreme” fetishes as part of their lives.
- Alison Tyler’s story “Feeder”, from Cleis Press’ erotic short story collection She’s On Top
This short tale doesn’t refer to any part of Internet feederist culture except the title. Instead, it focuses on the sensuality of cooking, eating, and sex as shared by a suburban couple.
Feederist and Fat Admiration Blogs