Resources
This is a list of resources for people looking to learn more about feederism, fat admiration, or fetish. It is a work in progress.
Feederist and Fat Admiration Dating Sites
- The Feedist List, a Tumblr where people can post dating profiles.
- Fantasy Feeder.
- Dimensions
FF and Dimensions are mainly on here for completeness’ sake. They’ve both gotten a lot of criticism recently for bad moderation policies and general uselessness.
Meatspace Feederism Groups
- Room for More (DC Chapter) This site is seldom updated.
- Room for More Chicago
Real-Life Erotica (My most popular feederism stories.)
Fetish Politics (Things I’ve written about the uneasy relationship between fat admiration and fat acceptance)
Books
- Fetish Sex: A Complete Guide to Sexual Fetishes, by Violet Blue (ebook only)
Violet Blue’s book is, hands down, the best guide to navigating the feederism/fat admiration fetish I have ever seen. It has an entire section specifically dedicated to it, and covers everything from tips on how to explain your fetish to your partner to suggestions for hot scenes. If you can only afford to read one of my resources, get this one.
- The Other Side of Desire: Four Journeys into the Far Realms of Lust and Longing, by Daniel Bergner (available in dead tree or ebook format)
This book doesn’t have a section devoted specifically to feederism, but it does show the various ways people adjust to having “extreme” fetishes as part of their lives.
- Alison Tyler’s story “Feeder”, from Cleis Press’ erotic short story collection She’s On Top
This short tale doesn’t refer to any part of Internet feederist culture except the title. Instead, it focuses on the sensuality of cooking, eating, and sex as shared by a suburban couple.
Feederist and Fat Admiration Blogs
- Big Men, Little Drawings (pencil drawings of fat men)
- Feedee World (a blog written by several women into feederism and fat admiration)
- Git Bigger and his Tumblr (gay male gainer with lots of info on what it’s really like to gain weight on purpose)
- Men In Full (a blog written by a woman in celebration of fat men)
- Chub Winchesters is a Livejournal group dedicated to Supernatural fan fiction with a feederism or FA bent. Here is their fic master list.