My giant ass list of feederism/fetish resources:

(Figured it was time I finally made this shit rebloggable.)

This is a list of resources for people looking to learn more about feederism, fat admiration, or fetish. It is a work in progress.

Feederist and Fat Admiration Dating Sites

FF and Dimensions are mainly on here for completeness’ sake. They’ve both gotten a lot of criticism for bad moderation policies and general uselessness.

Virtual Feederism Groups

Reality Feeder hosts a Feederism Chat on days ending in Y; watch their Tumblr for when the chat is active.

Meatspace Feederism Groups

Real-Life Erotica (My most popular feederism stories.)

Fetish Politics (Things I’ve written about the uneasy relationship between fat admiration and fat acceptance)

Things Other People Have Written About Feederism:


Violet Blue’s book is, hands down, the best guide to navigating the feederism/fat admiration fetish I have ever seen. It has an entire section specifically dedicated to it, and covers everything from tips on how to explain your fetish to your partner to suggestions for hot scenes. If you can only afford to read one of my resources, get this one. 

This book doesn’t have a section devoted specifically to feederism, but it does show the various ways people adjust to having “extreme” fetishes as part of their lives. 

  • Alison Tyler’s story “Feeder”, from Cleis Press’ erotic short story collection She’s On Top

This short tale doesn’t refer to any part of Internet feederist culture except the title. Instead, it focuses on the sensuality of cooking, eating, and sex as shared by a suburban couple.


Notable Feederism Blogs:

  • Feedee World (a blog written by several women into feederism and fat admiration. They recently started a Tumblr.)
  • Git Bigger and his Tumblr (gay male gainer with lots of info on what it’s really like to gain weight on purpose)
  • Men In Full (a blog written by a woman in celebration of fat men)
  • Chub Winchesters is a Livejournal group dedicated to Supernatural fan fiction with a feederism or FA bent. Here is their fic master list.
  • Citrus Magica/The Orange Mage is an outspoken feeder with a gainer girlfriend.
  • Macpurc is a gainer with a big belly who posts vanity pictures and videos of himself. I approve. 
  • Feedist Confessions is a Postsecret-style confession blog. 
  • Squidbiscuit draws stuffed versions of Superheroes, like Wolverine, as well as original characters. She’s also into vomiting.
  • Ree draws a chubby demon named Risto who she then very kindly puts in all kinds of shirtless situations for her fans.
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