July 2010
21 posts
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“Best euphemism for chubby dude ever? Barrel Chested Ruffian. Though my...”
– Twitter/writingdirty
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Tonight, these things happened:
1. I got drunk on two beers. I think this is a new low for my alcohol tolerance.
2. I vented about something that had been bothering me all week.
3. Was told someone didn’t find me as attractive as I did them—which was necessary and I hated.
4. Was cuddled by several people.
5. Remembered that I’ll forgive almost anyone if they cuddle me long enough.
6. Several people...
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Which Words Do You Use Online That You Would Never...
So you may have heard of that giant storm on Sunday that knocked out the power in DC? I’m still in the middle of that, having to roam about with my Acer and beat back the hordes who are fighting over every available wall plug in every coffee shop with free wifi. It’s a bit like defending yourself against a pack of wolves, only they have laptops.
Anyways, since this hasn’t...
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“Whereas, if I look at the kink conference you covered, well, I will be honest...”
– via Sexist Beatdown: Keep Your Fascist Government Off My Boner Edition
This is hilarious, because despite her fear of the Snape Cock @amandahess has actually been doing some nifty coverage of both the pro-porn (KFADC2) and anti-porn (FAP) sides of the argument.
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A lot of things in my life aren't the way that I...
but I realized tonight that I’m a hell of a lot less lonely than I used to be.
“G: I remember one thing I would do that was hugely dorky.
G: I remember, long...”
– Encouraging Cocktails Episode One
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“The smell of doughnuts is proven to increase blood flow to the penis.”
– via @WTFSexFacts
This explains so much.
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“The thing is, in all my years as a sex educator and writer, one of the things...”
– Now I remember why I started reading Violet Blue. From please bury me in this dress.
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Skin
The room had a dresser full of clean sheets and pillowcases at the ready, and a sign in it that said “Please change the sheets when you are done.” Which sounds sleazy, but the room was super clean, the walls were painted light blue, and there were the same decorative things on the walls you’d expect in a bed and breakfast.
You could also hear fucking from the room next door. I...
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“-Dominance can’t be about always being in control. Life is serendipitous and...”
– What the Hell IS Dominant, Anyway?
Last line included for completeness, though I’d be asking another question entirely!
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“The non-obvious part is that even men and women who never have orgasms at all,...”
– Folly of Assuming Women Evolved Not to Have Orgasms or That Men Require Orgasms to Reproduce
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“Sex and food. Food and sex. I don’t know about you, but I’m sick of...”
– The New Pornography: Competitive Eating?
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Lusting for Fat: Gainers Come Out of the Closet →
The tagline for this story is “As Fat Acceptance Voices Grow Louder, Blogs Celebrate Putting on the Pounds”, which pretty sums up the confusion neatly. As opposed to the NYT story which started it all, Susan Donaldson James attempts a review of all the fat-related things she could find. This results in a more balanced portrayal, but it still seems to equate fat acceptance with...
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“Fat Acceptance isn’t about imposing other people’s rules on your body. Whether...”
– The Rotund’s* post “Second Verse, Same As the First; Fat Acceptance Is For Everyone” isn’t concerned with feederism at all, but it’s definitly worthy of note to show the range of opinions and ideals that make up fat acceptance.
*The blog’s tagline is...
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“Feederism is a red herring. It doesn’t exist in any meaningful way....”
– On Feederism, from Red No. 3’s blog on “Actual F**king Fat Acceptance”.
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You guys, SO much happened this weekend!
So on Friday night I found myself in an (unfortunately) common bind of not knowing what the hell to do with myself over the weekend. Then I was reminded of certain kinky goings-on and went without much hope of anything happening. Instead, I had no less than three cherries busted! In the order of demolition:
1. I had a violet wand used on me for the first time. For those who’ve never heard...
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Angry Fat Acceptance Blogger Teaches Me Something
For the longest time, I haven’t been able to figure out what to call “those who are into feederism” in the plural. On KinkOnTap, I suggested “feederism people”. Then, of course, there’s “feederism fetishists”. But not everyone thinks of themselves as a “fetishist” anymore, and shouldn’t we have a plural that’s a derviative of...
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“I try to give the impression that I’m not some yokel feasting on sticks of...”
– via Another Article on the GitBigger blog