October 2010
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“There are very few things we humans have in common. Our cultures clash, we speak...”
– Great post from Mr. Sexsmith In Honor of National Sexual Freedom Day, on what it means to use the study of sexuality to “keep unraveling what it means to be a human being in this world.”
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Wanna Recommend A Body-Positive Site You Love?
The amazing Jiz Lee’s response to the Marie Claire debacle:
“Writing a post to promote sex-positive/body-positive websites that are not #marieclaire. Please @reply [via Twitter] or email jiz@jizlee.com by tonight.”
(They live in SF, so “tonight” is relative to where you live.) The post has been published, but they’re still taking suggestions for great sites!
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“…I think I’d be grossed out if I had to watch two characters with...”
– Exerpt from “Should Fatties Get a Room? (Even on TV?)” (link via @girlonetrack, who ads, “Internet, over to you.”)
An article notable for its insensitvity… as well as for the fact that the author actually apologizes in the comments.
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Things I Learned At Dark Odyssey Happy Hour:...
1. “Airtight” means a girl has something “plugging” all of her holes: pussy, mouth, and anus. It does not mean what I originally envisioned: a guy’s dick being such a tight fit in a girl’s pussy that it forces all the air out and he gets stuck.
2. Lucien almost lost his virginity inside the original TARDIS.
3. One of my friends is laying the groundwork to...
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“Honestly, some of the hottest guys I’ve seen are the first 15 pounders. ...”
– Gaining Body Type Ideals: It’s Relative
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“More than anything, I’m wearing a ribbon today because thousands of other...”
– Slactivism.
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“What research into the lifestyle taught me is that there is a real big...”
– Life on the Swingset interviews Terry Gould
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Guest Post: The Macaroon Incident
Guest author Scarlet emailed me for tips on introducing some feederism into her current relationship, and this was the delicious result! She describes herself as “a city girl with attitude who likes avant garde jazz, pretends to be bookish, and who is discovering peculiar things about her sexual psyche”.
For a few months I’d been having a mutually satisfying e-affair with a beautiful...
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“When you feel as thought you are at your most alone, there is guaranteed to be...”
– from The Rotund: Someone Is Always Invited For Tea; “I Alone Feel This Way”
Reason one of a billion why I love the Internet, and why I keep writing about feederism and sex.
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“…a slim, delicate brunette with tiny, freckled breasts, bent me over and...”
– Softly Aroused
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Anon asked, "Do you find your forays into other...
Forays into other forms of kink has left me feeling less lonely and more capable. There’s a story you often hear on fetish sites—though it’s by no means the only narrative—that having a really deep fetish limits your choices in life. You either have to find someone with your exact rare kink (for which the odds are stacked astronomically against you) or you have to find someone fairly normal and...
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Anon asked, "Do you think fetishist or feeder is...
Someone on the the Internet once advertised a class as helping people to discover their “core kink”—which I think of as the thing that turns them on every time. Similarly, I think of feederism as my “core”: I daydream about it, it’s still the only thing that will reliably bring me to orgasm, and my sexuality would look very different without it.
At this point, I’m just waiting for...
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“No one had their best night, yet when we were done the pleasure of talking and...”
– Out Of Sorts
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The First DC/Baltimore Feederism Meetup: A Good...
When I got to the restaurant, I realized for the first time that I had no idea who I was looking for.
This was due to an oversight. No one had thought to agree on a name for the group, and, since half the guests were people I had never even emailed, I didn’t know what anyone looked like. But instead of asking the hostess where the “FF” (or worse, the “Fantasy...
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Projects
Besides this blog, I have been involved in several other projects around the web:
2010
SexIs Magazine: I was interviewed by The Beautiful Kind for their Appetites Project. The interview was posted in two parts: Part 1 and Part 2. TBK later posted an uncut version of the interview on her blog.
KinkOnTap: I was a guest on the episode “A Rainbow of Porn”, where I talked about...