January 2010
20 posts
See You Next Year, Peeps
Am I still turning into one of “those” BDSM people if my huge bag of sex toys includes three issues of Filament Magazine and chocolate?
I’m sorry I don’t have a big end of year roundup for you guys. There wasn’t time, and I’m not really into doing that kind of thing anyway. But I just wanted to reiterate my thanks, both for reading me and for fucking me....
December 2009
27 posts
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e[lust] #3
e[lust] is a project begun by Dangerous Lily in order to replace the now-defunct Sugasm, a weekly roundup of sex blog posts submitted by the bloggers themselves. Each week, a group of anonymous judges vote on the posts to choose a “best in show”.
HNT Courtesy of 13Messages
Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest &...
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#Feederism and #BDSM →
I started a thread on FF asking feederism people what they thought of BDSM (if you wanna comment on that thread too, you’ll have to make a profile, but comments here are always open). My theory was that my perceived lack of feederism fetishists at BDSM events was mainly a language problem, that people weren’t coming because they didn’t understand there were elements of D/S in...
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They're Like Manatees, Only Meaner
From Dan Savage’s inbox:
I’m a 42 y/o guy in Connecticut who has a unique fetish, I want to be between two BBW, as I’m inside of one woman the other woman would go behind me pussy-humping me deeper and harder into the first woman, I’d love them to be aggressive at times, and to show me that they are dominatee. I’m a submissive guy and I have no body weight, would love...
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5 Things I Learned At Dark Odyssey Happy Hour
1. There are women who have learned to pee standing up. Into a lake. While balancing in the bow of a canoe.
2. It’s possible to cause someone excruciating pain by pressing on a place just behind a cuticle. A fingernail works best, or a chopstick. There is another place inside the mouth that, when pressed on, keeps them from closing it.
3. There’s a way you can cook cookies with...
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I don't know quite how I did it, but this was the...
I want to say thank you to the ones who have loved my bolster-like thighs, who invited me to orgies, who are okay with me having a strange fetish, who want to fuck me even when I’m on my period (and with cigarette ash on the sheets). These were things I’d never dreamed I could possibly have, that a thousand messages from everywhere had told me didn’t exist outside of fantasy.
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Sexy Christmas Pics For Bisexuals
Today I found two wonderful things while surfing the internet:
For lovers of the masculine, Wendy Blackheart treats us to some pictures of Anon’s Christmas balls.
For lovers of the feminine, Furry Girl looks lovely in her strapon and Santa hat.
Merry Christmas, boys and girls. If you have someone to boink this holiday, do it under the Christmas tree. Life is short!
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From the Archives: Yellow, Black and Red
This post was originally published last year, on the old Stuffies. It’s about one of my first experiences with my fetish, and how I met my friend Cee.
His skin is yellow—not with jaundice, but the color of caution tape. His eyes were pits of black. The colors are stark, but also smudgy, murky… what was that red stuff on the carpet, by his hand? I wrote, My, you are gothy. There...
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If You're Reading This, Thank You
Stuffies received 1,581 visitors this month.
This is astounding. I’ve been doing this for almost two years now, but Stuffies has been on Tumblr for less than three months! The traffic comes from lots of different sources—FF, ErosBlog, Fetlife, and pain old Google searches. Many also from Twitter, so I’d like to thank all 182 of you that took the time out to follow my links!
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“I’m not a BHM, but I was lucky enough to be with one, off and on, for...”
– From the Dimensions forums: How Fat Guys With Small Dicks Have Awesome Sex
“BHM”, by the way, is shorthand for “Big Handsome Male”, a guy who’s over 200 lbs. I’m discovering that a lot of people have problems with this phrase, but most feederism forums...
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“If you have something that you don’t want anyone to know, maybe you shouldn’t be...”
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mrgan:
Google’s CEO Eric Schmidt answering CNBS’s question, “People are treating Google like their most trusted friend… should they be?” Why are you people not shitstorming about this.
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timoni:
Because it makes perfect sense. What should I be shitstorming about: the part where he was...
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Stuffing
After I gave my KFADC talk on Feederism, Jack Stratton was curious to know more about how feederism people had sex. I know I don’t want to move after a big meal, he said, so I’d be curious as to how you circumvent that.
Well, I said, in a lot of ways that is the sex. But there are lots of other things you can do when you’re into feederism besides stuffing your partner ‘til...
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Opinion vs. Judgement →
AAG has a great post about how to talk about things that squick us out while still being sex positive. The examples are laid out as carefully as if they were in a college writing textbook.
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WatchWeird Cake Sex
I’m kinda late on this one, but the TV show Bones recently mentioned feederism in the episode called “Foot in the Foreclosure”. There’s also spontaneious combustion.
After watching it I have one question: Why are they called “feeders” and “eaters” instead of “feeders” and “feedees”?
The club full of fat...
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@ErosBlogBacchus Wrote About Me! :D
This is what you miss when you let your posts build up in your feed reader:
“@MollyRen again, this time her profile link: ‘Stuffies: A blog about food and sex’. Leading directly to a question for Faustus: Do you suppose feederism, with its sometimes interest in controlling body size/shape in a real and concrete way, has anything in common with the fantastical shrinking...
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Prisoner of the Illuminati
This is the same night I described in Stats.
When we got back from the restaurant, it was very late. Halo went to make a cup of coffee so she’d be alert for the night’s festivities, while Inigo disappeared into the bedroom.
Inigo’s apartment impressed me. It was hung with prints of human anatomy, Gustave Dore type sketches. He’d turned what had once been a walk-in closet...
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brighteryellow:
She’s so High - Tal Bachman
A...
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Marked
I figure it’s only a matter of time before I’m “outed” as a sex blogger. Not because I have stalkers or an angry ex (not yet, anyway.) It’s because I can’t lie.
Or rather, I don’t do it well.
Where I’m living now is a much better place than I used to be. I used to have a sullen, odd housemate and a landlord that thought seeing my copy of...
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“Is anyone every fully free from shame? As much as I’d like it to be different,...”
– Additive
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Conan O'Brien interviews Adam Richman, the guy... →
Apparently, Conan O’Brien thinks “fiber” is a dirty word. He reacts to it about the same way as when Adam says, “I was in the red light district…”