January 2012
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So does Google's new privacy policy put me at risk...
So I’ve been trying to read up on Google’s new privacy policy changes, which will go into effect March first. Wired explains,
“On the Official Google Blog, a post by Alma Whitten, Google’s Director of Privacy, explains how this new privacy policy will affect users: “Our new Privacy Policy makes clear that, if you’re signed in, we may combine information you’ve provided from one...
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“We in the sex-positive crowd generally treat a person’s sexual and gender...”
– Born This Way: Black Box Sexuality
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It's true, they're epic.
Cee: *puts chocolate cake on your boobies and noms* XD
Me: Nice.
Cee: I can fit a lot of cake on there. o.O
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“If you want to care about what I eat I’m going to need you to do the...”
– Nudiemuse: Things, the meat edition
Taking baby steps into dude clothes by wearing the classic white t-shirt/jeans combo in women’s. Now I want the guy’s version with a motorcycle jacket and some sweet sunglasses.
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“I am still a closet padder. The pile of old pillows that is ever-present in my...”
– Git Bigger blog.
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“So 2011 was kind of…you know. Deaths. Lawsuits. A lot of vomiting. So not too...”
– I, Asshole: “I was in the pool. I WAS IN THE POOL!”
December 2011
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“See, the thing is, you’ve got this idea of normal that’s not normal. Normal...”
– Madness, Marya Hornbacher (via estnespes)
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“The worst part of writing fiction is the fear of wasting your life behind a...”
– Chuck Palahniuk (via riotsnotdiets)
When you get right down to it, this doesn’t sound like a bad way to go…
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Guest Post! Peanut Butter Cup
(Another guest post from Poetic Desires. -MR)
He sat on the edge of his bed, spooning ice cream out of a just opened pint, savoring each bite slowly. I looked on wantonly. “Would you like some?” “Yes, please.” “Not in those clothes.” Obdiently, I stripped. He instructed me to grab his towel and I knealt on it in front of him, my hands tucked behind my...
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The feederism group Room For More has a new... →
“The Mid-West Chapter of Room For More is holding it’s very first get together on October 14. 2011 through October 16, 2011…”
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Anonymous asked: So, did you get any guest blog post submissions? I know your deadline was yesterday, and I missed it by a long shot. Will you be asking for guest posts again sometime?
November 2011
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SECRET MISSION: Do you want a fat necklace?
definatalie:
Follow @fancyladyind on twitter and await my announcements tomorrow.
This message will self destruct if no one reblogs it.
Me, me! I want one!
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Deep End's carving.
He’s tearing off strips of juicy, crispy skin for me and Poetic Desires. We’re getting all Clan of the Cavebear up in here.
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I just remembered I told Deep End I was sleeping...
The turkey’s 38 lbs. It’s the size of an ostrich. Or a small child.
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“This is your growth. And yes, sometimes growth feels like trying to poop a...”
– The Perverted Negress: Breaking in the Slave
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So I just finished writing about my very first...
I was asleep at the time, and the dreams I had during sound like I was on an acid trip. Angels, colored spheres, sexy geometry…I’ve never dreamed or come like that since.
(This is even more impressive considering that, at the time, I was so sheltered I’m pretty sure I was ignorant on what acid or an orgasm even was…)
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“A dozen men raise their hands. Yes, they want to be in porn. One woman with long...”
– What Women Want: Porn and the Frontier of Female Sexuality
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“Like Vernacchio’s students, I have difficulty rationalizing facts...”
– An American Oddity: Sex Ed That Actually Talks About Sex
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FACT: Polyamorous people have large orgies every...
kylathegreat:
hickies-n-hotpants:
This is false.
The orgies are only on Thursdays.
Um, wrong again. Orgies are how we start our mornings. On even-numbered days. And Thursdays.
Damn, I’ve been having mine with breakfast every morning. Am I doing it wrong?
Tumblr... blocking out everything on my dashboard...
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“There comes a point when you just love someone. Not because they’re good, or...”
– Laurell K. Hamilton (via atomos)
riotsnotdiets replied to your quote: And I get it. There are a lot of men out there who…
i hate arguments that are basically “your assertiveness alienates me”
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“And I get it. There are a lot of men out there who are so overstimulated by the...”
– Feedee World: Bigger Fish to Fry
Peeps, we’ve been getting it all wrong! The person who messaged Kyla “would love to see u spred open” was actually The Most Powerful Man in the World! His vast wealth, masterful eloquence, and deep concern for the everyday rights of fatties could...
nynakin asked: "BBW (standing for Big Beautiful Woman) is a term originating in the fat admiration and feederism communities." I loved your post about fetishism but maybe this statement is inaccurate. Of course today fat admirers and feeders use this term but it was created by Carole Shaw, (imho) one of the first fat activists. Anyway thanks for your blog... it's beautiful and very useful.
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“The other girl sits on her haunches, cock-less and content to bite and smack the...”
– From the last story of this little trio. Sometimes I amuse the shit out of myself. (via nudiemuse)
This is the kind of porn I want to read.
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“At the training, me and other pro-equality volunteers roleplayed conversations...”
– The most common real-world argument against SSM
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I've lived here for 2 years and been to dozens of...
Last night, however, was the first time I’ve been to an actual DC orgy since Jefferson’s. And it seemed to have happened by accident.
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likefuckingspinningplates asked: When others talk about weight loss or weight gain I feel totally out of the loop. I never know what is an appropriate response. I dont relate to the emotions everyone else seems to have in regard to weight loss or gain. Therefor I feel like whatever I say or do is awkward and usually forced. Its wonderful to read your thoughtful intelligent posts. What I am mostly saying is thank you for...
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red3blog:
askaguywholikesfatchicks:
molly-ren:
Askaguywholikesfatchicks, did you even read the post that touched off this whole debate? Let me refresh your memory:
Do you think that this is a polite or respectful message? Is this how you message fat women you yourself want to date? The dude even uses the phrase “bbw women” as if he’s incapable of thinking of Kyla as a singular person.
As...
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ronfancy replied to your post: I will always, always, ALWAYS be made deeply uncomfortable by these things:
UGH. I always feel like I shouldn’t feel uncomfortable and depressed when people talk about loosing weight…but I do. Always.
I’m uncomfortable almost always.
Depressed? Not exactly. There is often a lot of tongue biting. Because it is their body, after all.
I guess I’m...
I will always, always, ALWAYS be made deeply...
* people talking about how they are “too fat”.
* people talking about losing weight.
* people talking about taking steps to avoid gaining weight (i.e., “I went for a run today” won’t make me blink in the same way that “I went for a run because I felt disgusting” will).
* people talking about fat in a moral manner— i.e., they “feel bad”...
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For The Record: Preferences and Fetishes are NOT... →
kylathegreat:
kylathegreat:
I, myself, have preferences AND fetishes. But attraction isn’t a fetish. Enjoying fat bodies doesn’t mean you’re a fat fetishist. A fetish is the sexualization of something that is not conventionally seen as sexually desirable. A fat fetishist is a person who fetishizes fat, typically seeing it as something that is not desirable to the majority. Hence, their...