I love dominance struggles. He uses his strength and size to dominate me. I use food to make him submissive. He can turn it around by taunting me about my attraction to his fat. It doesn’t matter who ends up on top, both are wonderful.
“…while “the female gaze” is attracted by things like a naked, sweaty Chris Evans or Idris Elba, it’s also attracted by things like: men smiling in sweaters, men crying (DON’T LIE TUMBLR), barefoot fragile Sebastian Stan in the rain on Political Animals, men holding babies, men speaking foreign languages, Mark Ruffalo, and a whole bunch of weird stuff on Ao3 that I don’t even wanna get into. And that’s just “the female gaze as it pertains to men.””—septembriseur (via adriannalook)
“What are you supposed to do with all the love you have for somebody if that person is no longer there? What happens to all that leftover love? Do you suppress it? Do you ignore it? Are you supposed to give it to someone else?”—Maggie O’Farrell, After You’d Gone (via avvfvl)
chubby college bucky being an absolute menace once he realizes steve is into it
resting his belly on the counter of the apartment they share when he’s extra full and letting out an exaggerated sigh of relief
making sure steve knows what size he wears and making a big deal about it when he has to go a size or two up
belching and rubbing his belly and exclaiming about how full he is at the end of every meal they have together
resting his belly on the counter when steve is studying or trying to cook there and smirking when he gets flustered
dropping how much he weighs into casual conversations, or mentioning that he’s put thirty pounds since his football injury
playing with his belly absently while they watch tv, squeezing and kneading and jiggling until steve goes it’s, uh, it’s pretty cold in here, huh and pulls a blanket over his lap, and bucky just smirks and smirks and smirks
“If I offered you a million dollars if you could have an orgasm in the next 60 seconds,” said the psychologist to the woman, “what would …
found this article and it’s a good basic description of feedism in the general sense. it acknowledges how. like me, a lot of feedists choose not to go full hog and instead keep it private so that their professional and public lives are not affected. they also mention the gainer gay community and the sadomasochism aspects of the fetish. it also, funnily enough, is by the same author as “Perv,” a book the dove lent me at the beginning of the summer. i’m about halfway through it right now and i’m waiting to get to the juicy fetish stuff to see if there’s anything on my own fetish. apparently he also is a regular write for scientific america (where this links to)
“And doing the thing where you decide that clearly they’re not going to be into you so you’re not going to ask them out is ineffective: don’t reject yourself, other people are perfectly capable of rejecting you themselves if they so choose.”— ozymandias271 being super smart and saying the right things. (via scientiststhesis)
When Dean says, “Dude, on my car, he showed up naked, covered in bees”, he is not saying Cas showed up on his car naked/bee-adorned. He is swearing on Baby that Cas showed up naked and covered in bees.
This has been a PSA.
…this is life changing…
yes, baby was in storage from 7.6 Slash Fiction until the end of 7.23 Survival of the Fittest
Harry Houdini fact: He was friends w/ Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, who truly and deeply believed that Mr Houdini was, in fact, magical and accomplishing his impressive feats by use of real spiritual powers; upon discovery that this was not so and that Mr Houdini was in fact dedicated to debunking such superstitions, Mr Conan Doyle became extremely angry and they had a falling out which led to the two men becoming public antagonists and led Mr Conan Doyle to view Mr Houdini as “a dangerous enemy”
YOU HEARD ME
SIR ARTHUR CONAN DOYLE SAID THAT HARRY HOUDINI WAS “A DANGEROUS ENEMY” ON ACCOUNT OF HIS NOT ACTUALLY BEING MAGIC
discussing the popularity of non-BD fantasy toy companies made me think: what if people who want their weird dragon dildos don’t want to support BD, but don’t know where else to go? So! Here’s a list of non-BD fantasy toy makers that first time buyers might not have heard of:
(Note: all of these are 100% silicon and body safe afaik!)
Frisky Beast - Did you like that photoset of dinosaur’s doin it? Well, here you go. They sell fantasy dino and reptile dicks, as well as some other unique concepts. Cheaper than BD! (And no, I don’t own the centipede one. yet.)
DamnAverage - this guy makes some cool and pretty stuff at super reasonable prices! I’ve heard really good things about the Orc, so that might be one to look at if there’s one available.
Gespenst’s Fantasy Gear - like DA, this is just one guy who makes silicon dicks for fun. Some really unique styles here, like the Golem and the Octupus Buttplugs, but also some more typical shapes made in colorful body-safe silicon. Also, if you ever wanted a Darth Vader dildo, he’s got you covered. On par with Frisky Beast pricewise.
BeastLab - I’ve only heard a little about these guys, but their toys seem pretty neat, and priced between DA and Frisky Beast.
Divine Interventions - I currently can’t access the website, but these guys sell religious based sex toys. If you’ve ever wanted a Baby Jesus Buttplug, then you’ve come to the right place. I’d warn about the sheer amount of blasphemy seen here (not just Christians, there are a couple Buddhist and Hindu toys too!) but I figure if you’re looking for a dragon dildo on the ‘net you probably don’t care.
Necronomicox - More expensive than BD by a mile, but god damn, these are the most beautiful dildos I’ve ever seen. I think I’m going to shed a tear. If you love cosmic horror and old gods and tentacles you might wanna take a look.
Exotic Erotics - These guys have some really unique shapes because most of their toys are based on actual animal genetalia, which as we all know is weirdly shaped and potentially terrifying. Their prices are about on par with BD, depending on the toy.
If there’s anyone i forgot, or if I got any information wrong, lemme know! I’m a bit of a newb to the fantasy toy scene but I’d love to help people know their options!
Adding a couple more:
Fleshlight’s Freaks Series - Fleshlight has a series of both sleeves and dildos based on various nonhuman/undead concepts. They’re made from silicone, so that’s a plus.
Alien Dildos - made from silicone. Not as inventive or pretty as some, maybe, but there might be some here that people like.
I just casually mentioned to a male friend who is usually a good guy that I’m into fandoms.
His response was, “Oh. I didn’t realize you were that shallow.”
So I said, “Shallow?”
And he said, “Yeah isn’t that all about frustrated shallow women loving the male actors’ abs pretty much?”
And this I ended the conversation with, “Well, I like you less now.” And walked away.
There was probably a better way to have responded.
I once casually mentioned I was “in the Supernatural fandom” and had an older lady give me a look of complete horror. It took me a moment to realize she was probably thinking of me writing porn rather than someone taking part in GISHWISHES.